April 28, 2021

The Best Parenting Books Ever


You know how once in a while you read a book that is so good, it changes you? That's how I feel about How to Talk so Kids can Learn at Home and in School by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. 

I was first introduced to How to Talk so Kids can Learn as a teaching intern. The strategies in it were eye-opening, and felt so real and sensible. It awakened in me a consciousness of my words and tone, and the fact that choosing them wisely could make a big difference. In a way, it altered the course of my teaching life, causing me to have conversations with supervisors, and enroll in courses all about intentional teacher language and classroom structures that would care for students' social-emotional learning-- before I'd even set foot in my own first classroom. Over the years, my classroom was not always the idealistic community that I'd visualized as a newbie (far from it) and yet I was a much better teacher for having had that teacher-language approach as my foundation and center. 

Now as a parent I appreciate the book in new ways. It is the best parenting book, and one of the most affecting non-fiction books, that I've ever read. I think every parent and teacher should read it (an opinion evidenced by a peek at my past Amazon orders, which reveals that I have purchased this book at least five times to give as a gift for baby showers and gift exchanges). 

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Must-Read Parenting Books


Years later, as a parent, I eventually read two more books by the same authors as How to Talk so Kids can Learn: How to Talk so Kids will Listen and Listen so Kids will Talk and Siblings without Rivalry: How to Help your Children Live Together so you can Live Too-- all three long titles for books that manage to teach exactly what they promise to teach. Faber and Mazlish have co-written a number of other books too. Their different books might have different focuses (siblings/little kids/teens or school/home) but they all are written in the same encouraging, down-to-earth style and embrace the same philosophies around adult language strategies and the effect they have on kids. The three I own and love are described below.   

How to Talk so Kids can Learn at Home and in School-- Problem-solving with kids instead of for them. The importance of and strategies for naming their feelings. Using alternatives to punishment that actually help children learn from mistakes/misbehavior. Describing kids' actions and accomplishments so they can come to their own conclusions and grow instead of evaluative praise (fantastic/you're a good girl/you're so smart) which can cause self doubt. These are some of the huge mental shifts that this short and sweet book introduced me to and I highly recommend it.  


How to Talk so Kids with Listen & Listen so Kids will Talk-- This book includes all the same pointers as the one above but has additional priceless sections such as that on how to encourage autonomy (I've been trying to let my kids have control over more of the many small decisions in their lives, among other strategies, ever since I read that).  

One gem in this book is "Resist the temptation to 'make better' instantly. Instead of giving advice, continue to accept and reflect on your child's feelings." Here's one story: when my son was younger, I was guilty of trying to make better instantly all the time. He'd tell me about an issue on the playground or a complaint about his teacher and I'd talk and talk and talk to him about the situation and what he could do, feeling that this was my role as a parent, to try to advise and fix it. After one of these talks, I'd tell myself that I had helped even though I knew his eyes had glazed over and the conversation had revolved around my feelings and thoughts rather than his. Here's a different experience in contrast: just the other day he was expressing some recent frustration around practicing the piano. I asked him to tell me more about it, restating and naming his feelings now and then to clarify, saying only "mmm" a lot just to make sure he'd vented all he wanted to say, and eventually asking him for ideas of what he thought might help, being sure not to discount any of the suggestions right after he said them. And before I even thought the conversation was over, before we'd come up with a game plan or solution, he was already noticeably more positive, and profusely saying, "Thanks so much for talking to me about this." All I'd done was listen, act like his feelings mattered, and let him think aloud. But it was a proud moment when I got it right and a perfect example, for me, of how much more effective is this style of interacting with kids about their problems compared with the tack I used to take in the past. (I'll say also here that much of the enlightened advice in this book about how to foster good communication with kids is relevant and useful with coworkers, friends, and spouses as well.)

 
This book fits right in with the others but with a sibling angle (for example, how to accept and name kids' feelings about a sibling). But it brings in a lot of unique points. There is a chapter about the dangers of comparing a child to his sibling, either favorably or unfavorably, and alternatives that motivate better. Also, the idea that fair treatment doesn't mean equal or the same for all parties; instead fair means everybody having their unique needs met. (I knew this as a teacher in the classroom but somehow needed to relearn it as a parent of two at home.) When it comes to my time, base it on who needs me more right now. As far as sibling fights, I'm not saying it always goes swimmingly around here, but I have gotten tons of mileage out of beautifully simple tips such as attending to the injured party first and the aggressor later. And I often try to "step in so I can step out" when they are arguing-- essentially, hearing and appreciating the difficulty of the problem at hand, but communicating that I have faith in them to find a way to work it out that works for both of them and then giving them space. It's heady stuff for any parent of siblings.


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All three of these books I've described are quick reads. Chapters are written in a conversational tone, not an academic one, around specific, relatable situations that come up with kids-- messes, forgetfulness, frustrations with school work, fights. There are comic strips in every chapter, highlighting effective ways to communicate with kids in direct comparison to less effective ways, such as in How to Talk so Kids can Learn: "Instead of Denying Feelings" (page 28)..."Put the Feelings into Words" (page 29), with examples of each. There are summarized bullet points at the end of each chapter-- I wouldn't mind having all of these reminder pages plastered all over my house so I'd never forget them. There are also sections of questions sent in by parents and teachers, and the authors' answers to them. 


All three of these books have the same big themes to them: recognizing kids' feelings, using descriptive language, improving parent-child relationships, helping kids develop self esteem as well as responsibility and other skills. Faber and Mazlish aren't the only ones to write that adult language with kids matters, but their strategies are so sound. The language practices they espouse are also imbedded within the guidance of many other smart and influential voices on raising or educating children (see, for example, Carol Dweck's growth mindset work as well as advice for parents raising a quiet kid from the book Quiet).  

Evolving the way we talk to kids is hard and it takes time. In a teaching course once, I was taught a tip for working on improving teacher language: record your voice working with kids throughout the day, then go back and re-listen to yourself to study where you've succeeded and where you could improve on your goals. I could never bear to go so far as to record and listen to myself, but I see the point. In trying to embody these strategies, I mess up, all the time. There are so many situations in any given day that just come up that we have to react to (or consciously choose not to react to). It's good to be aware of those knee-jerk reactions that we aren't so proud of at the end of the day, so we can work on building up better alternatives to carry around with us and strive to do a bit better the next day. 

These days homeschooling I'm more convinced than ever that our words and our tone with kids matters-- perhaps more than anything else in parenting. I have one child who is six and another who is ten, and I hope to show both of them I am present and they can talk to me now about anything and feel heard and respected, so that when harder things come up when they're older they will still talk to me (and be willing to listen as well); I find these books a guiding light for big goals like that. 

April 18, 2021

Why We Love Mystery Science


Did you know the Ancient Greeks referred to the planets as wandering stars? Recently during science time, we watched a short video in which we learned this and some other fascinating facts about the planets including: landers that have been sent to Venus to take photos melt within a couple of hours, Mercury has craters and looks a lot like the moon, Uranus spins on its side, and it takes almost 10 years to get to beautifully blue Neptune! Then we sketched and labeled a picture of each planet and headed out into the backyard. At one end of our yard we placed the sun, and then at specific proportional distances from there placed each of the other planets. My youngest exclaimed, "If the planets were waiting in a line to do something, Neptune would be the boredest!" For part of the activity, I called out a planet and they would run to it as quickly as they could. They weren't reciting "My Very Eager Mother Just Served Us Noodles" to figure out which way to the planet in question; they started to internalize where the planets were with this game. After a bit, they took turns calling them out for each other. When it was W's turn to call, he would sometimes give M hints by referring to how "bored" was the planet in question. The video and the active components were both so fun and effective, and left all of us thinking of the worlds of the planets in new ways. 

The above is just one example of an awesome science session that we regularly have, thanks to the online "open-and-go" lessons from Mystery Science. The company was started by a science teacher in California-- the kids call him "Mystery Doug." They love how he always reminds kids, in his upbeat, friendly tone, to "Stay curious." 

In the classroom, before I found Mystery Science, I used to feel that science was a lot of work to plan for-- to find several age-appropriate, engaging activities to teach a topic and then to gather the resources and plan the time for it-- especially while trying to teach every other subject as well. On the flip side, I think homeschool science, specifically, can run the risk of being helter-skelter, driven solely by fun project ideas-- a baking soda volcano here, a nature sketch there. For our homeschool, I feel Mystery Science solves both these potential issues. We do our share of museum outings and seasonal adventures-- like a couple of recent treks to a vernal pool near us-- and we do just-for-fun projects when a new Kiwi crate arrives or when other inspiration strikes. But Mystery Science lessons are the backbone of our science work, providing cohesive units of study without a lot of extra work for me. I've now taught with Mystery Science at the first-grade, kindergarten, fourth-, and fifth-grade levels, so I feel qualified to say that it's great. Here's why we think so. 

This session was so inspiring, she had to go change into her astronaut costume in the middle of it.

Reasons we Love Mystery Science 

Lessons begin with an engaging story. My son told me recently that the story Doug tells at the beginning always gets him hooked and is his favorite thing about Mystery Science. Here's an example: recently, at the start of a lesson to learn and graph the amounts of fresh water vs. saltwater on earth, we heard the true, mesmerizing story of Jose Alvarenga, who was lost at sea for over a year but survived by eating raw animals he caught with his bare hands and collecting rainwater to drink-- because, as the lesson ensures kids understand, you can't drink saltwater. That's the hook for a lesson that got us thinking of all the ways we use water and what it would be like if we had to worry about how to get it. 

It is interactive. While lessons are online and video-based, they are hardly passive sessions. Amid the introductory information, there are regular "stop and talk" moments for students to share their hypotheses. Then there's a hands-on activity, with discussion and wrap up afterward.  

It regularly takes kids through the scientific process. They have to make predictions, choose variables to test, engineer products with specific constraints, work with a partner often, gather data, and make conclusions. 

Trying to figure out how to get the sun to shine on a town shaded by a mountain (lesson fueled by a story of a real town in Norway)


It is aligned with the standards. Mystery Science lessons are based on the Next Generation Science Standards (NGSS) and their disciplinary core ideas. The way the activities are organized incorporates specific engineering practices. I like knowing that we aren't studying life cycles for the fifth year in a row, and also that the complexity of the ideas covered is age-appropriate. 

It is affordable. We paid less than $70 as a homeschool family for the entire school year (regardless of how many grades worth of material we utilized).

It requires minimal materials. The materials for each lesson I find ingeniously simple; from paper and regular office/school supplies and containers from the recycling bin we have made ramps for marbles, a "universe in a box" showing constellations to be seen in different months of the year, a model of the water cycle, and so much more. I rarely have to buy materials for science. 

We could "see" sound when tuba music came out the speakers.

It is focused on key points. One downfall of elementary science instruction is the temptation to do it all-- gathering every book and resource that is in any way related to the water cycle, for example. Better teaching is more focused, and Mystery Science keeps us focused. Each lesson has a clear focus and it is around this that kids are spurred to discuss, think, model. The objectives of the lesson are always made quite clear. (There is a selection of extras included at the end of each lesson as well for further exploration-- links to other great web sites, short videos, articles, and activities. We delve into more of these some times than others, depending on interest.)  

It provides beautifully simple, creative ways to teach concepts. Directions are clear and concise, given orally and visually, step by step. W was really affected after counting all the color-coded squares on a grid of the earth and graphing (on our wall with post-it notes) to represent how much saltwater there is on earth and how very little fresh water there is in comparison. Similarly, last year he understood the process of weathering and why rocks at the bottom of a mountain might be rounded while those are the top more jagged by shaking a container of sugar cubes and seeing how the shapes of them changed gradually after every few shakes. 


Using warm or cold water above and below, they had to figure out how to make it rain inside the upended plastic cup-- or recreate what happens in the water cycle.

It is age-appropriate. Science is my kindergartner's favorite subject. The kindergarten lessons are perfect for five- and 6-year-olds: they are brief to suit a short attention span, they engage with true stories, appropriate explanations, and probing questions for a kindergartner. There is always movement built in; when we were studying animal defenses, M had to get up and act out what each of several different animals did to defend themselves after watching footage of animals in action. She loves doing real experiments using her own handiwork, making hypotheses, and doing multiple trials. The fifth grade lessons are just as engaging and accessible, but expect a little more of students, from their reasoning to math calculations to having to write down more of their thoughts and data rather than just discussing it. (The lessons are easily adaptable for multiple ages as well. My daughter often tags along with her brother's science lessons and can participate in the activities, if not all of the written work.)  

Kindergarten engineering (how to keep boulders from hitting houses on a hillside)

It includes assessments. There are paper and pencil, printable one-page assessments after each "mystery." For younger grades, the assessment often involves a drawing, while for older students it is usually a few short-answer questions. It directly covers what we learned in the activity and provides documentation for their portfolio.

It is homeschool-friendly. Unlike so many programs and resources that are made specifically for schools or specifically for homeschoolers, Mystery Science is designed to work beautifully in both home and classroom. Some resources out there are so expensive they aren't an option for homeschoolers, but Mystery Science offers a reduced homeschool price. I can enter any number of students, right down to one, to calculate the amount of materials needed. The teacher notes for each session explain anything specific to homeschoolers, but there are never any big changes. Oral directions within the video always give directions for working with groups in a classroom and for working on your own or with a partner at home. (So much in our culture is built on the assumption that school is every child's world, so it's nice to feel noticed and included as a homeschooler in these small ways!)  

Prehistoric food web

It includes a super-fun bonus component: "mini lessons." These are approximately five-minute-long segments on a whole variety of topics. They are just for fun, when you have an extra few minutes here or there, and aren't tied to a particular grade or unit of study. Kids from all over the world can submit questions through the "Ask Doug" feature on the Mystery Science web site (my kids have each submitted a few). Some of these questions get chosen to be answered in the mini lessons. When you have a membership to Mystery Science, the mini lessons are always available. Some mini lessons include an optional small project with very basic materials, but most are just a short video with a few stop and talk moments for a little extra fun and learning. A few we've enjoyed this year: Do masks really stop the coronavirus?, How are video games made?, and Could people ever walk on walls?  



It frees me up to focus my energies and preparation time on other things. I can imagine being a parent or teacher who gets excited to plan the topics of study we do in science and to research great activities to teach those concepts (and I know some of those people), but I'm not one. I do that in other areas, though. So I like having somebody else's great legwork to keep us going in science.  

Force and motion: knock over the old building without wrecking the nearby houses

It encourages kids to question and wonder. I love that these science lessons don't just provide activities to teach science concepts. They espouse values, sometimes explicitly: how important and exciting science is, the value of asking questions, of failing and persevering, the need for collaboration and problem solving. 

Our worm terrarium last fall 

April 7, 2021

Good Books and Other Tips for Teaching a Child to Read at Home


Learning to read is one of the most exciting things. 

I taught first grade and one of the main things I loved about it was seeing so many kids become readers. I loved witnessing the excitement and incredible growth around that (and I had similar feelings about seeing kids that age become writers). There's a metamorphosis in kids, when they realize they are-- finally, sometimes suddenly-- a reader, when they've cracked the code and feel the special new confidence that comes with the ability to decipher the world around them-- books and so much more. It was exhilarating to see it in my own daughter this year in our homeschool setting. 

At the beginning of this year, M was 5 1/2. She could name most of the letters reliably, and she knew many of the sounds they made. She recognized a few words on sight and could write her own name and sometimes a couple of other names (Mommy, Daddy). She was well-placed as a beginning kindergartner, but she was not yet a reader. 

...Now, she is a reader. We can no longer spell the words we don't want her to hear in our conversations. She constantly catches us off guard by asking, "Why does it say-- ?" as she reads food packages, our to-do lists, road signs, and everything else. She insists on reading some of the questions herself when we play a game. It all happened so quickly, and it's amazing the effect all of these new abilities have on a now-six-year-old's sense of self. 


The Ingredients for Learning to Read
There is a lot of research on the methods for teaching reading skills. I think a few things are most important:
  • Regular, brief lessons in letters and sounds, in an intentional sequence: go from easiest and most common sounds/spelling rules (e.g. short vowels and consonants) to those more difficult and/or less frequent (e.g. silent e rule, ing/ang endings). 
  • Teach them to recognize by sight words like the, are, and is-- words they'll come across frequently but that often can't be sounded out. Spell them out loud, use flashcards, write them in the air, etc. 
  • Read books aloud regularly and talk about them. 
  • Writing time, for kids to tell their own stories and learn to put them on paper, with pictures and words.
  • Reading time itself, to put appropriate books (not too hard or too easy) in kids' hands and let them practice, with support in how to tackle tricky words and other strategies.   
All of the above heavily supports learning to read. But the moment of putting it all together and really becoming a reader isn't a formula. I see learning to read as partly magic; it's a small miracle within each kid as to when and how it all clicks for them. 

Below is how we approached reading time itself. 


How we Approached Reading This Year

Keep it Cozy
We don't do worksheets or drill sounds during reading time. Reading time is for books. We sit on the couch most days. She reads me two or three books, then I usually read her one or two (at any level, just for the sake of reading aloud) as well. I might read a book to her on a topic we are learning about in science, or a great new library book or something else. She looks forward to being read to probably as much as I like to hear her read to me. 

There are ways to jointly read her books, which we did a lot early in the year, and still do sometimes just for fun, or when the book or the mood calls for it:
  • Alternate: I read a page, she reads a page, and so on
  • Echo: I read the book first-- either the whole way through or one page at a time-- then she reads it 
Logistics
Most academics we fit in in the morning when we are freshest and most energetic. But reading works in the morning or afternoon because it's not too demanding (see above). I try to start with a tip or reminder that I know is relevant for her at the moment, like: remember to stop when there's a period; if it doesn't make sense try again; make sure the word matches your guess from the picture. Other than that, I just have her choose what she wants to read and we read. I listen and follow along. If she gets stuck and asks for help, or plows ahead with mistakes, then I remind her of another strategy to try. 

For a lot of the year, we had two baskets she could easily draw from: "Working On" for a selection of books I thought were currently about right for her that she hadn't read yet or couldn't read very smoothly yet and "Can Read!" for books she'd mastered. It was nice having a spot she could go to for books she already knew any time she wanted to read to her dad or anyone else. Recently, we've started to outgrow this basket system as what she can read has expanded so widely so that she can select books from all over our house. 


Good Books for Kids Learning to Read
In the classroom I had a whole selection of books to suit kids' different interests and ability levels. But at home, I don't have all that to draw from. In the beginning, it was a little tricky at times to figure out how to get our hands on books that were easy enough for M to practice with-- not to mention the hope that they also be engaging (which many beginner texts are not). But we found things for her to read, without buying a lot, by using the library and some free apps. Essentially, we followed a path from emergent reading (see below) to phonetic reading to patterned books and then to a great variety of options. 

These are the books and sources I've found affordable, accessible, and helpful for a child learning to read at home. While some overlapped, I listed them here in approximately the sequence in which we used them. I am sure there are other good options out there as well but this list got us through!


1. Start with Labels around the House
The night before the first day of homeschool, I taped index cards on various things in our house-- "chair," "piano," etc. The moment M came downstairs, all bright-eyed and eager for the first day of kindergarten, she noticed one, and then another and another. She was full of exclamations: "Why is this here? What does it say?!" We didn't read them to her, but told her to look at it. What would make sense? What did she think it said? Did she have any guesses based on where it was or by looking at the beginning of the word? She quickly figured out some obvious ones but others took more time and I let her puzzle over them, like "light." She immediately thought, "switch" and I said, "Great idea!...But this word starts with /lllll/." Whenever she figured one out triumphantly, we'd say, "Wow! You're a reader!" and you could almost see her self esteem grow. I'm so glad I started our year that way because I feel like it set the tone for her school year. It gave her a sense that she was so capable already and just had to work to unlock the world around her. It was a way to get her to really start to look at words, and made her feel the thrill of being a reader. (And it was the moment I really understood why every kindergarten classroom I've ever been in has labels all over on things like the sink, calendar, and table.)  

2. Respect the Emergent Reading Stage
This is the stage when kids understand that a picture book tells a story. They have heard stories lots of times. They know the words hold meaning but they can't read most of them yet. They can, however, sit down with a known, favorite book, and turn the pages and tell the story aloud, pretend reading. They won't be saying the words exactly as they are written. But they are reading, in their own, emerging way. Rather than rushing past this stage or forcing them to focus on the words, honor this stage for what it is and work with it. 

I found ways to encourage this type of reading for a while. I asked M to try to say more details to go with each page-- so she wasn't just flying through the book providing a cursory summary. If it was a new book she could look closely at the pictures and try to tell the story by using all the clues they provided. This was a little freeing to a beginning reader to be told she could read this way. I think made her feel a lot more confident early on to feel she could "read" any book off our shelves. If it was a story she'd heard before, I could also ask her to try to sound like a grown-up reader and use words like the author used in her telling of the story-- words like gasped and suddenly and worried. It was okay if she didn't know exactly what the words said yet; she could still read by doing the best she could and using a reading voice. By allowing her to work with great books she loved right off, rather than flimsy miniature early readers which kids seem to know aren't real books, it propelled her into the reading world with more engagement. So the strategy for a while was essentially: fake it till you make it. But it worked and was a lot of fun. 


3. Primary Phonics
After the emergent reading stage, we worked with some phonetic readers. I had had success with the Primary Phonics series with some students, especially those for whom it is hard learn and keep straight letters and sounds. Kids like that don't need tricky language in books at first to trip them up. They need controlled texts-- books that have only the words they've learned by sight (e.g., the) and words that consist of sounds they have learned so far. The first book in Set 1 is Mac & Tab, about a cat and a mouse. It consists entirely of words like a, and, the and 3-letter words with only the vowel "a." The pictures are black and white line drawings and they are old stories. But it's empowering for kids to open up a book that follows the rules, that they can sound out, all the way through, even if it takes a while. This was real reading for the first time. 


4. Bob Books
These are even easier than the Primary Phonics set in a way, in that they begin with only truly decodable words. The first book in Set 1: Beginning Readers never includes even the word the, but is made up entirely of the letters "m," "a," "t," and "s." But in other ways these were a little trickier, especially for a kid who has been read to and knows how books should sound. Herein lies the tricky balance for books for early readers; in order to have such a controlled, decodable book, some pages sound awkward. (The first page of book 1 says simply, "Mat." Another page says, "Mat sat. Sam sat.") But when sounding out was hard and reading was slow going, she could read a couple of these little tiny books and feel successful.     


5. Scholastic Box of First Little Readers
When M started being able to branch out a bit from the decodable books above, I found this Scholastic set of patterned stories, in which every page has the same sentence that only changes by a word or two and the pictures give big clues. It makes sense to teach kids explicitly that many books (for early readers) have a pattern, and to look for and identify that pattern to make reading easier. Once they are comfortable with the idea of a text pattern, this type of book can introduce them to more interesting vocabulary. With 25 little books for around $11, this set was a bargain. The boxes are available in various levels, marked by a letter. We got guided reading level C. On Amazon there are pictures of the insides of some of the books so you can quickly get a sense of what they are like if you aren't sure of the right level for your kid. I'd suggest buying a level that feels like a little bit of a stretch at the time, because they will only be at any given level for a finite period of time. Even with the brevity of the text, this series manages to be a little silly and M enjoyed the humor.


6. Board Books
We have a vast collection of board books from when our kids were little. I realized at one point that there were plenty that M could now read herself and I started culling them from our bookshelves. Board books, made for babies, consisting of one word on each page, were great. Some others are rhyming or patterned in some other way that make them easy to tackle for new readers. The familiarity in the fact that we had read these books to my daughter hundreds of times since infancy helped her be more successful with some of them as well. Some good ones we used were Freight Train by Donald Crews, Orange Pear Apple Bear by Emily Gravett, I Like Fruit by Lorena Siminovich, and Mommies Say Shhh! by Patricia Polacco. In general the ones with the fewest words were best at first, and later she could access others.   


7. Repetitive, Predictable Texts, Including ABC Books
Up until this stage, I had had a hard time finding books from the library (other than more board books) that were simple enough for M to read. But once she could handle a sentence or so on a page and was working with patterned texts, the library became a rich resource for her reading materials. I looked for ABC books, because those are essentially labeling books. I also looked for anything patterned or repetitive, like the classic Brown Bear, Brown Bear, What do you See? by Bill Martin Jr. and others like Silly Sally by Audrey Wood, I Went Walking by Sue Williams, and Go Away, Big Green Monster by Ed Emberley. I found if I did a Google search for "repetitive picture books" or "picture books with predictable text" or "rhyming picture books," I got lots of lists of ideas, then I would borrow some of those titles from the library.   


8. Kahn Academy Kids App
I don't get a lot of apps for the kids, but Kahn Academy Kids is one of the best ones I've found, school-wise. It was free. We put it on our iPad. It plays constant background music, but you can turn off the sound. It offers academically-oriented games too. But we got it for the "Library" part of the app, where there is a good selection of books. The books are under different categories, and we most utilized the Early Readers section. When your child taps on a book, it opens with the option to "read to me" or to "read by myself." We always chose the latter when we were using the app to practice reading. The early readers range from simple decodable stories to more challenging, but they do follow a sequence that makes sense as kids get stronger at reading. Most of the early readers are fiction stories about the same set of characters, which M found engaging. They were a perfect combination of decodable words, patterned text, and interesting stories and characters. And, free! 

(For general listening enjoyment or read aloud, the app also includes some great published nonfiction, like the great Blastoff Readers Series about animals, vehicles, and science topics, and some National Geographic Young Explorer books.)  



9. Epic App (or Epic Online)
A lot of teachers had their students use Epic for remote schooling. We got a free trial to Epic at one point and since then I have been paying the monthly fee (less than $10). It's unpredictable what titles they have, but there are a lot of books available for various ages. There are both Epic originals (not always so good) and lots of great, real published books. Each of my kids have a profile and the app notes their interests and suggests books for them, and keeps a record of which books they've read. 

As far as using it for M for learning to read, we've mostly done one of two things. One is, we look for "Collections" of books that teachers or others have made. These are groupings of books based on a theme or level. We found a Collection called Fiction Level A/B Books and another called Ready to Read. Important note: the leveling on Epic does not seem to follow a consistent standard. Plenty of the supposedly A/B books were harder than that, but it was a good start. The other thing we learned to do is to go to Search, search for a topic, then when the search results come up, narrow them by clicking on the Reading Level filter at the top and choose a level range. It's a range rather than a particular level, but it at least loosely groups books by difficulty. M would choose a book that looked interesting and then we'd look at it together to see if it looked just right for her or not. (The more broad the initial search term you use, the better, because I haven't found a way to simply search for books by level.)   

10. After that, the World...
By the time kids can read beyond predictably patterned books, the world of reading has opened up and it's less about finding specific titles or series. There are so many good series and options for a young reader who can really read-- Henry & Mudge, Little Critter, Elephant and Piggie, and lots more. One thing worth noting, though, is that if you set out to buy books marketed as early readers, some of the labeling can be tricky. Leveling systems are not consistent from one publisher to another, and the terms can be deceiving. For example, we've enjoyed books from the I Can Read! series, at the "My First" level, but M wasn't reading those until recently. They aren't decodable, there isn't a defined pattern-- and yet it's listed as the earliest level. I think a good rule of thumb is, rather than being tied to levels or to a particular publisher, to just flip through a book. Check out first and foremost how many words are on a page; fewer = easier reading level. But also check how easily most of the words could be sounded out, or whether the words of the story follow a predictable pattern, because those things make books easier too. 

Don't be afraid to let young readers try something you think is too hard. For one thing, it's good for kids to learn to recognize for themselves when a book is easy or too hard. But once kids put together the puzzle of reading, they sometimes grow by leaps and bounds. You may be surprised by how much they can read if you casually test them from time to time, asking them to read first one book without any help, then another more difficult one if that goes well, and so on, just to see what they are capable of at a point in time.    


Other Notes

Using the Pictures
Children's books have pictures for a reason. They support the text and help with comprehension and figuring out words that would be too difficult without them. Learning to read means learning to put together all sorts of information-- what the letters in the word itself look like, the context of the sentence and whether it make sense and sounds right, and the picture too. Pictures are engaging and supply details and richness beyond what an early level book can provide in the text alone. Kids using the pictures to figure out a word isn't cheating, but rather a part of being a young reader. 

On Memorization
Sometimes parents are concerned that their kids are just memorizing when they can fly through a book. And sometimes it is true that they know a book so well they literally have it memorized and claim they can "read" it without even looking. When this happens, of course, it makes sense to let them know that that's a neat trick, but it isn't really reading because grown-up reading means looking at the words too. 

But there is no harm in memorizing a book and it can be a good thing at a certain stage. When you have a book memorized, you need to match what you have in your head to the actual text on the page. By doing both at once-- the fluid, rote memorization, and the looking and following along with their eyes-- they are internalizing story language, memorizing what certain words look like, learning new vocabulary well. A memorized book is also an accomplishment. It makes reading fun, and is a nice contrast to the hard work of getting through a brand new book. Memorization allows them to practice other, higher level reading skills like voices for different characters, and fluency and phrasing, while their brain is not entirely consumed by sounding out and figuring out as they go. They shouldn't cling to only books they have memorized, but as part of the learning to read repertoire, it's a good and healthy thing.  

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I'll end with an anecdote that reminded me how memorization can be a good thing. M wanted to learn all the words to a certain favorite song from the movie Frozen ("Into the Unknown"). So I found and printed the lyrics for her. I imagined I would read these to her or with her because it was a lot of words, but no-- she wanted those lyrics for herself. She read them with voice and expression, following along, efficiently figuring out tough words because she already had big portions of this song memorized. She had a good sense of the language and what it should sound like, so she was able to match that knowledge to the print and consequently to read plain text on a page that would have been beyond her otherwise. 

The lyric reading I witnessed is a reminder, too, of the impact that reading out loud (and talking, for that matter) to kids has on learning to read. The more stories they hear, the more language they know, the more they know how stories tend to go, and the easier a time they have filling in the gaps when it's their time to read themselves. 


Video clip reading/singing "Into the Unknown" (can't resist):