February 18, 2021

Art Project: Papier-Mache Bowls



We recently finished up an art project making these papier-mache bowls! I loved to do this when I was younger and it was great to share with my kids. They liked having their hands in the gooey mixture, as well as getting to paint the bowls any way they wanted. It was a days-long process, with several drying stages, but really easy and fun.

I didn’t take any pictures of the process, because my hands were too messy at the time! This is what we did:

Materials Needed:
  • household bowls (to build on and then remove)
  • aluminum foil
  • nonstick cooking spray
  • newspaper-- both whole pieces for work surface and strips for papier-mache
  • flour and water
  • acrylic or tempera paint, brushes
  • Mod Podge 
Steps:
1. Choose a household bowl you like the size and shape of. Cover it as smoothly as possible in aluminum foil, then give the outside of the bowl a spray with nonstick cooking spray (this is so the hardened paper will pop off the bowl easily later).

2. Mix a slurry of flour and water in a bowl in about a 1:1 ratio. Rip some newspaper into long strips.

3. Invert bowls on large pieces of newspaper. Dip a strip of newspaper in the slurry, pull it up through your index and middle fingers to wipe off excess, then drape it across the bowl and smooth it down. Cover the bowl in slightly overlapping strips of newspaper like this all going the same direction until bowl is covered.

4. Turn the bowl 90 degrees and add another layer of newspaper strips the same way. Do more layers as desired (we did a total of 4-6 layers on each bowl). Let dry completely overnight.

5. Cut the overhanging part of the strips off the next day and pop the foil-covered bowls out of the now-hard paper. To smooth the rough paper edges, make more flour-water mixture and dip short strips of newspaper in it in order to lay them over just the edge of the bowl, overlapping all the way around. Let dry overnight.

6. Paint the bowls any way you like with acrylic or tempera paints. Let dry overnight.

7. Paint a coat of Mod Podge to give it a shiny, glazed finish. (We Mod-Podged the outside of the bowl one day, let it dry, then the next day flipped it over and painted the top edge and inside of the bowl.) Let dry completely.  

We haven't decided what to put in our bowls-- they'd have to hold something that's not wet! But they would make a nice gift or decoration. 


February 4, 2021

Ideas for Virtual Playdates


It's midwinter at the height of a pandemic, so, like many people, we're trying to avoid indoor gatherings-- which eliminates traditional playdates. That has been tough. 

Some may think that homeschoolers would be accustomed to limited socialization, but this school year has felt like night and day compared to (the first two-thirds of) last year. Last year we were new homeschoolers, and we were happy and relieved to find how connected the kids still felt. W attended PE twice a week at the school with his old classmates, and participated in every seasonal sport. We took one class for homeschoolers and did frequent after-school things like playdates and dance class. We were pleasantly busy; there were always people to see and places to go. 

The last few months, with none of that happening, is the first time I have worried about socialization and trying to keep my kids from feeling too isolated. 

We're lucky to be able to sometimes meet up outdoors with friends who like to cross-country ski or ice skate, but for the most part other than that, we've focused on finding ways for the kids to have fun with friends and family from home, via Zoom or FaceTime. Given the options right now, they love it. Especially on the days when morale is dragging, I've found it is amazing how much happier my kids are after spending an hour or more face-to-face with a friend, even if it isn't in person (which they frequently reminisce about, and look forward to doing again...). 

My biggest aha with my kids and video calls is that, while there are times we all want to sit down and share a family call, in general the kids do best with their peers when I just get them set up (if needed) and then let them be free to wander around the house and to do whatever they feel like, even if it doesn't seem that they are really doing any particular thing. That might mean two 5-year-olds just peek at each other through their empty Connect 4 boards and giggle. While I as the adult might feel inclined to step in and organize things for them, if they are happy and spending time with someone they like, that's what matters. Kids are amazingly flexible and adaptable and mine always seem to find a way to have fun one way or another when they are given the time and some friendly company on the other end.  

But there are times, on calls with grandparents or newer friends, where I've found it's nice to have a little more structure in the way of a game or activity, at least to get things started. To that end, here's our list of favorite activities for virtual playdates. I hope this list gives some ideas to other parents out there. What ideas have worked well for your family? Please share your other, no doubt better, ideas for getting kids together safely. I would be excited to get a comment :) and we would absolutely love to get more ideas.  

Our Favorite Activities (So Far) for Virtual Playdates

Games 
We don't do online video games (yet) in our house, and I know that's a way kids connect with one another from home these days. So far we've stuck with some old-school games we've found to work well over a video call. Many only require one of the players to actually have the game, while others require no special equipment.
  • Guess Who-- Perfect over FaceTime; just make sure you both have the same version, which was an issue we ran into once...
  • Battleship-- Another that is absolutely perfect for playing remotely, as the whole point is to hide your board and guess the other person's.
  • Connect 4-- Some friends of ours taught us the trick of labeling the columns 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7. Then kids (of any age!) can play with anyone, even if their opponent doesn't own the game. The opponent just says which column number to drop their chip in when it's their turn. This one is good for a wide range of kids and for play with grandparents as well (and it's quick so you can play several rounds). M actually played recently for the first time with a friend who owned the game and it was honestly a little more confusing to have two boards and have to try to mirror/stay caught up with one another. We decided it's best for just one person to have the actual board set up on their end. (She also played with a different friend recently where they didn't play the actual game but both just ended up stacking their Connect 4 chips and comparing their walls/towers/patterns, so it's a multi-use game.) 
  • Hangman-- Another good one with grandparents, and adaptable for multiple ages, by using simpler or harder words. 
  • Charades-- We played recently in a group of adult cousins and our kids. It was really simple and fun, especially by googling a simple word generator like this one (with easy, medium, and hard levels to choose from) so that you didn't even have to first brainstorm words to act out, but can jump right in with playing. Teams do not all have to be located in the same house together to guess and act for one another which was fun, because there were more kids than adults so we decided to play adults vs. kids. (We had the kids' team use the "easy" words and the adult team use medium or hard words.) (My sister tells me Pictionary was fun this same way, using an online word generator, so we are looking forward to trying that, too.)
  • Scattergories/Categories-- Choose several categories, and a letter of the alphabet. Set a timer for a certain amount of time. Everyone privately tries to think of and write down examples of each category beginning with the chosen letter. When time is up and answers are compared, you receive a point for any word that other players didn't also think of. Play several rounds with different letters of the alphabet and compare scores. Here is one description of how to play.    
  • Yahtzee-- This is a great game, with a fun mix of chance and strategy. We've learned it can be played over FaceTime easily. We scanned the blank score sheet and emailed it to grandparents. As long as they have that and can find five dice in their house, they are good to go! 
  • Board Game Arena-- We need to further explore this site that a friend introduced us to, but it seems great! It is a free way to be able to play a whole slew of traditional board games and card games online with friend. It provides the interface to play games that wouldn't otherwise work well over a video call. After 30 seconds to create an account on the site, W recently spent an hour playing a few rounds of Kingdomino over Zoom with a friend thousands of miles away and reported that "that was SO fun."  
  • 20 Questions-- no materials needed. 
  • Rubik's Race-- This may fall in the category of games W and his cousin found to play in the early days of quarantine that perhaps seem like less obvious choices to others but they made it work. It's a two-person game where both need to own the game in order to play it virtually. You quickly try to move the pieces around to be the first to make a specified arrangement. It's intense and fast-paced, so not a lot of chit chat on the side with this one. 

Other
Here are some other things, besides specific games or just chatting, that have been fun for the kids over video chat. 
  • Impressions-- I once had the idea that I would get W and his homeschooled cousin together to talk about a book they had both read. I had question prompts ready and everything, but my lofty book discussion became a game of impressions. "Okay, okay, who am I now?..." one of them would say, as they acted out things specific characters from the book said or did (or the types of things these characters might have said and done based on their personalities) and the other guessed.  
  • Dress up-- M enjoys doing this. The funny thing is, kids don't seem to mind abandoning each other for several minutes as they go change or retrieve a prop, and don't seem to mind waiting as the other does the same. It's not the same as being in the same room together, but it's amazing how naturally they do it and go with the flow of it all.
  • Dolls-- Another of M's favorites. It's great when she has gotten a chance to play "Babies" with her cousin. They are on the same wavelength (in contrast to how the rest of this household secretly feels if M asks one of us to play babies with her) and they don't care whether they can see each other the whole time. They chatter at each other and occasionally stop to see or show something on the actual screen that they leave propped somewhere as they are happily engrossed with their own dolls in their own rooms while hearing each other's voices.   
  • Show & Tell-- If there's an adult on the other end, especially one prone to motion sickness, they may get tired of kids running around the house carrying the iPad/phone while on a call. But kids love to show off their room, pet, or newest toy or creation, and seem genuinely interested in seeing each other's things as well.
  • Legos-- This one doesn't seem like it would work well, but from the earliest days of quarantine, W and his cousin have contentedly built Legos together over Facetime. They'll hang out for long moments peacefully building in silence in each other's company, then they'll show things, or ask ideas and be totally engaged in it all. (One of the sweetest things I overheard was when W and his cousin made the (questionable) plan to each build half a boat out of Legos and to put it together when they can get together again.) They seem so focused and satisfied doing Legos over FaceTime, approximating one of the most natural pastimes they'd be doing if they were actually together.
  • Reading-- Kids can read to a grandparent, or take turns reading to each other. 
  • Performance-- FaceTime works great to play or sing a song or do a dance for an audience. 
  • Teach each other something-- Kids can take turns or set up different times to be the teacher, teaching and demonstrating a gymnastics or dance move, or other how-to for a friend. 


Last, but not Least, School-Related Stuff
If you are lucky enough to have some homeschoolers (or remote schoolers) as friends or family, virtual bits of the school day here and there where you can share learning are a fun way to break up the routine.
  • Jeopardy or other learning game-- Quiz kids on a shared topic of study.
  • Book talk about a common book or author or topic-- Could be a discussion you structure and lead, or one you leave to them.
  • Share/Present-- Last spring we had a few "talent shows" for my kids and my niece and nephew when each kid could share or show off any new skill or learning they wanted to All the Grandparents. Our four kids read writing aloud, performed magic tricks, recited things they'd memorized (state capitals), played a piece on an instrument, and did gymnastics routines. Remembering this makes me want to do it again. It was a fun way to bring people together and give the kids all an audience and an ego boost.   
  • Share a lesson-- During normal life there are homeschool classes, and homeschool co-ops where parents come together and take turns teaching groups of homeschoolers on topics of individual expertise. This is not something we've tried this year, but seems like a reasonable thing to do virtually. 


For Adults, Too
My husband and I don't play many games but we have played more in the last nine months than usual. Here are a couple things we've really enjoyed.   
  • Sporcle Virtual Live Trivia-- For $5 per device, a team of people in separate locations (up to ten households) competes against other teams. It's low key and fun. After each question is posed, you get a few minutes in a private "breakout room" with only your team members to discuss your answer and chat. Sign up on their site couldn't be quicker and easier. They have plenty of "all topics" trivia nights, and we've also done a couple of themed trivia nights with particular groups of friends-- and we let W stay up one night to play Harry Potter trivia too.
  • Jackbox Games-- A drawing game called Drawful and a funny game of brainstorming funny responses to questions called Quiplash have been our favorites, but this company has a whole suite of games. Most of these can be played with up to eight people/devices so it's another fun way to get together with friends and family. (W and M are both fans of playing Drawful, and we just keep the "family-friendly" setting checked when playing with kids.)
One of the many unexpected gifts we are thankful for in these strange times is that, in some ways, we see friends and family more, and on shorter notice, than ever before. It's not the same of course, but it can still be a lot of fun. Please share your favorite ideas that we should try next!    

January 29, 2021

Fun for Kids Outside (at Home) in the Middle of Winter


Boy in Woods with Stick

"Exploring" in the woods with a stick in hand is how this boy is happiest. The above photo is a rare moment of calm, though; usually he's using his latest, greatest stick as a club to whack things, or pretending it's a spear/sword/bow. 

Both my kids always end up finding activities to be engrossed in outdoors in all seasons, even on the rare days when they at first say they didn't feel like going out. 

We try to go outside every day even during this season of cold and dark. It's easy to find things to do when there is fresh snow: we head out with the purpose of shoveling steps and porches, or sledding, or building a snow creation. But most of the time we bundle and head out just for the sake of the routine of getting out, even when no specific purpose particularly calls us. While I love our family outings to go cross-country skiing or ice skating, just hanging out in the yard on an average weekday afternoon when it's twenty degrees outside is not always something I personally feel like. But it's always worth just doing. This is a lesson I have had to learn over and over. They find things to do. Outdoors has the power to restore every day, not just on the fair-weather days. Cheeks turn pink, moods lift, conversations are had that wouldn't have been had face-to-face at the kitchen table, treasures are discovered, games invented. Afterward we all feel more ready for whatever is next, more tired-in-a-good-way at the end of the day, more connected with the world around us. 


Here are some of the things my kids have been loving to do outside right now.

Fun for Kids Outside (at Home) in the Middle of Winter:
  • Go sledding. My kids don't even require a sled lately.    
  • Snurf. W's snurfer has provided a lot of entertainment. 

  • Build a snow person or fort or other creation. Compare said creations or build together. 
  • Shovel the steps or porch.   
  • Shovel a path around the perimeter of your yard. We started doing this years ago for our dog, who doesn't like to walk through deep snow. Now he's older and doesn't venture too far regardless, but we've kept up the habit. We all use it, and creating it after a big snow is a satisfying project. 



  • Look for animal tracks and try to follow where they go. Sometimes we take photos of them with Google Lens and try to identify them. They love to imagine the busy nightlife of the animals right in our backyard. Tiny little mouse prints are just as cool to see as deer. 
  • Venture into the woods. W especially loves to go beyond our fenced yard and "explore" in the woods. He loves to check out remnants of an old foundation, find perfect sticks for doing this or that, or play hide and seek in one area for a while. They discover things just by being there. A few weeks ago they discovered little spots like air bubbles on the bark of an evergreen tree behind our garage. When they poked at the spots with a stick, clear, gooey pitch/sap came out, sometimes as much as half a teaspoon. They tried to "collect" it and used it to glue leaves to stumps and things. Hopefully they weren't harming the tree, but they both were so joyful discovering this neat little phenomenon. 
Harvesting pitch


  • Dig a tunnel through a snowbank and try to crawl through. 
  • Bring hot chocolate in a thermos and drink it outdoors. 
  • Throw snowballs at a target-- the swing set, a certain tree, the fence post. 
  • Snow volcano-- usually I don't plan at all for outside time, but one day I brought the supplies out for this snow volcano I'd seen online, and they got a kick out of it. After a while M had fun just spreading around the colorful foam we'd created.
  • Spray colored water on snow. M enjoys putting water and food coloring in a spray bottle and misting the snow banks or snow sculptures. 
  • Take photos of cool things, like these upside-down icicles we found.
  • Go for a walk. While the kids never bore of the yard, some days I make them go for a walk. They search ever-optimistically for dropped antlers, climb the snow banks, and generally continue to act like kids outdoors even when we are covering some distance. 


January 21, 2021

Your Kindergartner is a Writer


Young kids need a lot in the area of language arts: 

They need, of course, to be taught to read and to spend time practicing with books that are just right for them.

They need explicit, sequential lessons in letters and sounds (phonics), to memorize high-frequency words like "the," to learn what a word is and what a sentence is, and basic conventions like capitalization, periods, and spaces between words. 

They need to be read aloud to by a fluent reader who pauses to talk about the story with them. 

And, even as young as kindergarten, they need time to write, time when they come to feel capable as and see themselves as writers. Writing time is not the same as handwriting or phonics or answering questions on paper or filling out worksheets. Writing time is a unique time to make books, stories, poems, and other things like the type of writing they see in the world. 

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One might say, how can a five- or six-year-old write? If they don't know how to read or spell yet, don't even know what all the letter sounds are, how can they write a word, much less a sentence or story? 

I can tell you, dear reader, that they can (and should). The process and the results have been some of the most satisfying and exciting parts of my professional life-- teaching first graders-- and now, in our homeschool with my own kindergartner. It need not wait until other foundational skills are solid. Writing develops right along with and feeds in and out of those other skills. 

Their spelling will not be correct. It will be phonetic and that is age-appropriate. (Indeed the Common Core Language Standards say that kindergartners should "Spell simple words phonetically, drawing on knowledge of sound-letter relationships" while first graders should also "Spell untaught words phonetically.") They will not leave spaces between words. They will write in all capital letters. They will write backwards and draw all over the page. In the very beginning, they will write random strings of letters that can not be read by you or them, but it has meaning: it shows they understand that letters make a code and that code tells a story. Their earliest attempts, very picture-dependent, or even entirely pictures, are precious pieces. It can be a little scary jumping in and asking them to write so young, and progress can feel slow at first. But with daily, or almost daily, writing time, as well as all those other components of learning our language listed above, they will improve dramatically. 

Kindergarten, Day 1

I have a picture hanging in our kitchen that M made back in the summer. It shows a unicorn and beneath the drawing it says, "UInKNITZ" (It is a unicorn, or more precisely, Unicorn it is). At the time she created that, I was dazzled by the sophistication of her drawing and spelling. And now, just a few months later, as a mid-year kindergartner, she is a writer and she knows it! She is currently working on a multiple-page book about how to build a snowman and has many other awesome and (mostly) legible gems stored away in her folder.


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So, what to have them write? Out of habit, I use the three Common Core text types as a guide for the types of writing to consider-- opinion, informative/explanatory, and narrative. But don't worry too much about what each of these are (there's a link here describing the writing goals at a kindergarten level if interested) or about how a young kid could possibly write them. For a kindergartner, anything that is factual counts as informative writing, any combination of drawing or writing about an event or about several loosely linked events counts as a narrative, and anything in which they state a preference can be opinion writing. When kids get older, the possibilities for fulfilling these areas are wide-ranging and exciting. But here are some examples of the types of writing you could have the youngest students do. I tend to focus on one genre for six weeks or so, having them create many pieces practicing that type of writing, and then move on to another.

Types of Writing Primary-Aged Students Can Do 

Opinion
  • Toy reviews
  • Book, restaurant, or other reviews
  • Persuasive writing (letters, posters)
  • Favorites: Kids write to express opinions on various topics of their choice (best pet, favorite vegetable, least favorite vegetable, favorite season...).
Narrative
  • Stories from their lives: I frame it as writing about things they did or things that happened to them, stories about one time, often called "small moment" stories.
  • Pattern books: Create a pattern or borrow one from a published book they can read (think: Brown Bear, Brown Bear and other repetitive, even simpler books) and write their own version.
  • Series stories: They write a story about a fictional character, then write more stories about the same character (think Biscuit books or Henry and Mudge as models; best for first grade and up).
  • Fictional stories
Informative/Explanatory   
  • Teaching books: Write about anything they know about-- soccer, trucks, swimming, dolls (can be common knowledge; M wrote one about things to do at the brook).
  • All-about books: Similar to above, just a different way to frame it.
  • How-to books: Write the steps, with illustrations, about how to do literally anything they know how to do (how to swing on the swings, how to build a cup tower...).
  • Alphabet books: Come up with a word for each letter (and possibly a sentence or more as well) and of course, illustrate. Could be on a theme or not.  
  • Question-and-answer books: One page is a question, the next provides the answer (could be on a certain topic of expertise).
  • Simple recipes: List ingredients, write directions of what to do.
  • Labeling/Show-and-Tell: Draw and label specific parts of things they know about. 
Also, Poetry
This is not exactly any of these text types but can be a lot of fun (see this post I did about teaching kids to write poetry).  

There are so many possibilities. The key is to look around at the texts that surround them that they are aware of in the world and pick something they might enjoy trying to create. Find published examples of the type of writing they are going to do. The texts you show them as examples will be (at least) a notch above what they are able to create themselves. But it gives them a clear goal, a picture of what this type of writing they are working on can be and the effect it can have on its reader. Choose one particularly good "mentor text" as an example of the type of writing they will do. This might be just a page or part of a published book, and sometimes the mentor text, for very young kids, needs to be something you write yourself (which won't take you long). Read your mentor piece with them multiple times, in its entirety then in bits and pieces on different days, to get to know it well and what makes it what it is, what makes it good. Keep in mind that no matter what mentor text you choose, the work they do will always be an approximation of that. 

Teaching
After exploring the type of writing they will be doing by reading it, model creating a piece yourself. Model the whole entire process, quickly at first, and then let them jump in with excitement. For the how-to books M has been making, on the first day I acted out coming up with a topic I knew about, planning out what each step would be, and drawing a picture on each page to teach about the steps in my own how-to book. Then I wrote it, or started writing it, quickly, so she got the idea. We also wrote a how-to book together early on ("How to do a Puzzle") to practice. 

After that, on other days, you can give finer tips, one at a time, and tease out aspects of the writing to help it get better and better and to keep them going. Each day she either continues to work on the piece she's in the middle of or she starts a new one. On different days, I've pointed out to her details like the fact that how-to books often number each step, and that the important words are often big and bold, and that all the things being taught in the words need to be in the pictures as well and vice versa, and that how-to books often give tips or warnings (she then came up with a great tip for her own book regarding making sure to check that you have the right kind of snow before trying to build a snowman). No matter what type of writing you are doing with young kids, you are bringing in very basic and important teaching about how to write anything, ever.

Writing time is a time to teach more than mechanics. Teach them to start a new piece when they think they have finished one. Teach them to not allow themselves to "get stuck," and in general teach and reinforce resourcefulness, initiative, and independence. One of the most important things when it comes to young kids and writing is your attitude toward spelling. If you allow it, they will constantly ask you, "How do you spell..." or "Is this spelled right?" This creates a dependence on the grown-up and a writing time when not much gets written. You empower them when you tell them they don't need to ask you; just stretch the word out, say it slowly, and do their best to write down the sounds they hear (model this, too). Then celebrate brave spelling: Wow, that's a big word! I can read exactly what this says! When my daughter says something like, "Is this how you spell Pinocchio: p-u-n-o-c-y-o?" as she did just yesterday, I say, You got all the sounds in that word! I don't lie and tell her she's right, and there are times for just providing the spelling for them (words like "the" and their own names, and during phonics time teaching about particular types of words), but the goal at this stage is hearing every sound and recording it and I am thrilled when she has done that and just keeps writing.  


Helping Young Kids Plan Their Writing
In the beginning of the year, I had M thinking of things she knew about that she could teach others about. She was drawing a picture and labeling it on one piece of paper. Now, she's able to spread a story or teaching book across three or four pieces of paper, with a picture and a sentence on each. But at every stage, even for kindergartners, it's good to teach them to plan as part of writing. They need to, because otherwise, in the process of trying to figure out how to get something on paper, they will forget, or their beautifully articulated idea will get mangled or shortened because of their limited abilities. As kids grow older they will someday learn to make a mind map or other notes before they write. But at the age when getting a word or sentence down is a feat, written notes (even just single-word notes) are not developmentally appropriate. For young kids, I think planning best takes two forms: oral storytelling and drawings. 

Students need to tell their story aloud first, just as they want to write it. They should tell it to their peer, their parent, their teacher-- preferably multiple times so it becomes ingrained and they won't forget when it's time to write it. They can even point to the blank page(s) as they tell their story orally. 

Drawing is also an important first step to writing. They should draw the picture on the page(s) to go with what they plan to write there. The picture will be another reminder (notes, if you will) when they go to do the hard work of writing words. However primitive their drawings may be, they are often more compelling than their written words. After all, drawing is part of the expectation and part of what "writing" is for young students (to mention the standards again, kindergartners are expected to "Use a combination of drawing, dictating, and writing..." to compose their written pieces). Perhaps all this about the importance of primary-aged kids writing and drawing is obvious but I say it because I once heard a veteran first-grade teacher I was acquainted with say at a training that she used drawing as a "carrot"-- her students first had to write, and then as a reward they got to draw. I know she meant well, but I disagree. Drawing is not a carrot for little kids. Drawing is a tool for them and integral part of the process and product.  

Draw first, write later

Revision (Yes, Revision)
Revision feels like a big, fancy word but it is a key part of the writing process that needs to be taught all along, starting at a young age. Revision does not entail the adult correcting mistakes. Revision means student editing (fixing up) as best they can, and choosing small additions or changes to make a piece they already like even better. 

Having taught your child lots of various skills about a particular type of writing, maybe you've collected these on a chart as reminders. From time to time, have them choose one of their best pieces of writing from their folder and go through this list of tips for good writing. The list will include reminders like spaces between words, write an ending or last part, and to teach with both words and pictures on each page. Read through the checklist with them and have them think about whether they have done each thing in that piece of writing. If they haven't done some of those things, is there a way they could add to their writing to improve it? Based on these revisions, what goal or goals do they have for themselves for their next piece of writing? Revising, even in a very simple brief way, helps them be aware of their own learning and growth and teaches them that as a writer, we can always go back and make something a little bit better, even by just adding a word or capital letter here and there. As with everything else in teaching writing to young kids, revision should have age-appropriate expectations and it will not be perfect; in learning what revision is, they will be approximating skills they will use more and more as they get older. 

Share It
Finally, sharing is a must when it comes to little kids and their writing. Whenever they finish a piece, and certainly at the end of a unit of time focused on a particular type of writing, they should share and celebrate that piece with some sort of audience in some way. Maybe it's by giving their writing as a gift, or reading it out loud to someone, or coloring the pictures and adding a fancy cover and putting it on your bookshelf with your other books. Hard work and a finished piece should be recognized and helps to keep them going. 



A few last notes:
Pens vs. Pencils: Either is fine. There is nothing sacred about a pencil, and in fact, there are plenty of arguments out there about why it's maybe better to provide kids pens to use for writing time (such as they don't break or need to be sharpened, kids don't develop an erasing fetish, you get to see and learn from all their mistakes because they are just crossed out, and pens are juicy and colorful and may add a little bit of allure and specialness to writing time). Some teachers have kids use markers. I think any type of writing tool that works and makes you and them happy is okay. 

Writing Grip: Kids go from a fisted writing utensil grasp as preschoolers, to a three- or four-finger modified grasp, and eventually to the "correct" tripod grasp. But some develop unique, not-quite-correct grasp habits along the way. I don't think the way they hold a pen is something to stress them or yourself about early on. But it is something to keep an eye on and work on when you think they are ready and before they solidify bad habits that are less comfortable or less efficient. There are lots of occupational therapy web sites out there that describe and depict ways of holding one's pencil and why it matters, and there are also lots of different types of grip tools you can buy, depending on what they need, to help kids learn to hold a pencil the right way (based on the photo below, it seems we have procured most of them in this house). M seemed to be solidly settling into a three-finger pencil grasp (as she shows in most of these pictures), so we've been using a butterfly attachment to her writing tools lately and it seems to work well for her.  



Handwriting: Backwards letters are normal, especially in kindergarten. But keep reinforcing the right way to make those b's, d's, p's, and other letters. There are plenty of tricks out there to help them check and remember which way the letters go and they will remember sooner or later. 


Word Spacing: As mentioned previously, young writers need to learn to leave spaces between words. It's another thing to explicitly teach, and a concrete way that their writing will seem vastly improved once they start doing it. Some things can speed up the process, like giving or letting students make a fun gizmo that they can be taught to place after every word as they write to create that space; for some kids just teaching them to put a finger after each word is enough. (I gave M a jumbo popsicle stick to decorate for this purpose.) You can also model how challenging it is to read a sentencewrittenwithoutspaces compared to the same one written with spaces to help them become aware of this goal and why it matters. (When it comes to editing a story already written, I wouldn't want a kid to have to rewrite a whole page, so I teach them to put a long vertical line between words where a space should have been.)  


Choice: Let them choose their topics to write about. This is time for them to learn to write, to see themselves as a writer, not a time to complete an assignment or fill in the blank. Sure, you as the adult might announce that they will work on writing persuasive letters, but you don't have to decide the topic for them or the recipient. When it comes time to start a new piece, help them brainstorm, and make the practice of drumming up ideas one of the writing habits you are teaching. 

Respect their Age: They can sit, they can stand, they can use a clipboard or a table or a desk (and sometimes they'll do all of these within one session). Keep your lessons and talking brief and to the point and go with their signals for how long the actual time they spend writing should be. Work on building their stamina over time. But as with everything, a kindergartner won't realistically spend the amount of time on task that a fifth grader should. I will share some of my tips for writing time with older kids in a later post.  



Paper: I've read that paper options you provide convey expectations. You want to offer paper that is appropriate for the stage they are at. You don't want to limit them nor overwhelm them. We started the year with M creating her written pieces on a single sheet of blank copy paper. Then she made little booklets on half sheets, with labeled pictures on each page. We progressed to paper with one line on it for text, then two (I found various printable paper options online), and now we are using paper with four or five lines on it-- but always with a picture space too! Sometimes I staple three or four sheets together as a story/book but she often ends up removing or adding a page depending on what she's creating. 

Growth over Time: Just for fun, I am sharing below a little timeline of my daughter's writing samples this year. Every child is different and will need different paper, and different teaching, at different times. You won't always notice growth from one piece to the next, but when you look at their writing over time, you will. 

August: [Teaching about how to make pancakes] Flour. Eggs and butter. Sugar. End I think.

September: [Teaching about birthdays] Party hat. Daddy. Face balloon. Candles. Birthday cake. Birthday celebrating.  

September: [Teaching book about hiking] If you keep walking then you get stronger. 

October: [Personal story] I lost my balance. I went swing, swing, swing, but I held on tight.

November: [Personal story] We went on the biggest bike ride for me. It was really rainy on the trail. 

December: [How-to book about bundling up in winter time] 2. Put your jacket on and zip the zipper. 

January: [How-to book about making a snowman] 2. Roll the first snow ball until it gets very very big.  

December 31, 2020

Mind Mapping for Clearer Thinking & Planning


I have been able to witness my fifth grader grow so much as a writer in the year and half that we have been homeschooling. He has a lot of strengths in writing, including stamina, a great vocabulary, and a tendency to try to emulate specific techniques of writers he loves. His writing has become vastly more coherent than it used to be, now with (mostly) correct punctuation and few run-on sentences. 

That said, left on his own he tends to dive into a piece of writing, then as he works on it, digress into long sections on whatever details fascinate or amuse him most. While I'm certainly impressed that he can write at length and stay happily engaged on one piece for days and days, I know the area in which he needs to improve is overall, big-picture organization. This year I wanted to help him learn to make a good workable plan before he starts a piece of writing, something that would keep him on track while he wrote, reminding him of what really belongs and what doesn't, what he's already written and what he still needs to cover.  

This fall one day, I quickly showed W how to make an outline, using Roman numerals to list the sections he wanted to write, and letters for the important points within those sections. He tried to make an outline for an informational piece he was to write. It got pretty messy, with no white space, lots of words and details crammed in and curling all over the page, and the order in which he thought of things and wrote them in the outline not matching the order in which he would eventually want to write about these things. He hadn't yet learned how to choose just the important key words to jot for this planning stage, so that was part of the trouble. He also didn't like having to make this outline, recognized that it was a bit of a mess when finished, and didn't refer to it much while writing his piece, but instead ignored it and did most of his thinking and planning as he went, as usual. 

One of W's outlines, that wasn't very user-friendly, before learning about mind maps

That particular writing piece came out alright in the end. But the extent to which the written outline format wasn't a guiding, useful tool to him made me look to alternatives that might better help him organize and plan. That's when we started to learn about mind maps.


Mind maps have helped a lot! Mind maps are another way to plan a piece of writing, or to organize thinking on a topic. A mind map is a graphic organizer. It's a refined version of a simple brainstorming web. A mind map uses unlined paper. The main topic is in the center, possibly with a little symbolic drawing to accompany it. Shooting out from the main topic are branches for each of your main subtopics. Each branch is in a different color and could also have an image accompanying it. From the end of each of the subtopic branches, you might have one or two or more small lines branching out to show details about that subtopic. There are some good explanations and samples of mind maps at several different web sites:
A practice mind map exercise: mapping things he likes

A traditional outline is linear, list-like, reads from top to bottom on lined paper-- and works well for many of us. Mind maps on not linear. By using color, images, and words, and using space creatively on a blank sheet of paper, mind mapping uses right-brained skills as well as left. Perhaps smart people who struggle with organization like my son, or anyone when working with a topic that feels particularly confusing or nebulous, would find mind maps helpful. For those who write as they plan or for whom ideas come in random order, a mind map can be a way to create order out of chaos. It's easy to add another branch, or another detail to a mind map in progress. It is also easy to see and work with the whole that a mind map presents. The end result sticks more because it's visual.  

W and I have been reading Mind Maps for Kids by Tony Buzan a few pages a day. The book is filled with examples of how to use mind maps, juxtaposed with more traditional ways to do the same tasks. It is interspersed with little exercises to stop and practice the skill, so it's a quick and active read. (It also has some little jokes and brainteasers sprinkled throughout to give brains a break from the mapping work every now and then.) It is published in Britain, so there is some vocabulary we've gotten to discuss as we go, like revising=studying, and maths=math. 

Mind map about a story about a vacation

The thing about using mind maps, or any type of outlining, to plan writing is that one needs to stop and think before diving in. Which are my main points and how many of them are there? How can I summarize each one with a key word or two? What is the supporting information I want to be sure to include for each section? 

These days, W thinks through some of these questions, then puts pen to paper to make a mind map. Then, his ideas are visually organized and color-coded before he types his first sentences on the computer (which is how he drafts these days). He still decides as he goes which branches of the mind map he'll write about in which order, but it's all laid out there for him, easy to navigate, so he can stay more grounded and on track. For a fantasy story he's been working on, he made a general plot arc before he began and also two small mind maps: one for the main character, with various facts and traits about him on the branches, and one for the setting. He keeps his notebook open to these mind maps as he writes and I can see the places where the details from them get woven into his stories. I'm looking forward to seeing how he categorizes his information for an upcoming piece he'll write about the Battle of Gettysburg. Each time he makes a mind map, he gets a little better at the process-- a little more organized, a little more succinct, a little clearer for him (and me) to pick up and understand. 


Fantasy story setting and character planning

Fantasy brainstorming

Mind maps are not only for use in planning a piece of writing. Mind maps are useful for kids in planning other things as well, and for thinking and studying such as: 
  • Mind map to show/see the main points of a history article/topic 
  • Mind map to sort out different quadrilaterals and their attributes. (W and I each tried this, based on an exercise in the book, and it was a great example of how a mind map on the same topic by two different people will come out differently! It all depends on how you think about and organize the topic in your own mind.) 
  • Mind map to organize learning of new vocabulary (in English or a foreign language) 
  • Mind map to organize spelling words-- by spelling pattern, or root word...
  • Map out a novel they are reading and its themes (each theme as one of the main branches, and the smaller branches at the end being examples of how the theme shows up in the book)
  • Mind map to plan gift giving to different recipients
  • Mind map to plan the components of a birthday party
All of these are ways that mind mapping can make showing ideas, thinking, or studying more fun. 






Civil War causes and consequences map

I was even inspired to try mind maps for myself. I've tried using a mind map to plan out a couple of pieces of writing recently. Even though my thinking wasn't organized beforehand, or sequential, it was easy to create a mind map as I thought through a topic. It evolved organically. Since I didn't begin to write till I had the whole idea mapped out (a step I don't always do), the writing came together a lot easier than some other times. If I had known about mind mapping, the process might have helped me sort out confusing concepts in science class, and it would also have been a great study tool. Rather than making stacks of flashcards or reading through notes until I fell asleep, I might have sat down to a college exam and had a map in my head of the important topics and the connections between them. 


My kindergartner is becoming quite a writer for her age, but I haven't been using mind maps with her. It's certainly important to find ways to help young kids plan before they write. (Young kids tell wonderful, animated stories, but it takes so much effort to write them down, that their written version of the story is often far less detailed/interesting than what they can tell aloud.) But I don't think mind maps are the way to go for this purpose. At least through kindergarten and first grade, the idea of key words as notes (in any format) is too abstract for most 5-, 6-, 7-year-olds. In my experience if they make notes, the notes become their writing, copied word for word, less enthusiastically the second time. I think it's better for young kids to orally plan a story, or get ready to write by drawing the pictures first. More about that another time. 

The biggest selling point for W about mind maps is that they are fun. He says he really likes them because they are fun to make, easy to read, and much more helpful for him than other notes or outlines he has done before. I can imagine being a school teacher of older students and getting tense about kids spending time dawdling about their favorite shades of glitter pens and which pictures to draw before getting down to the business of writing the essay or story at hand. But, we have that time in homeschool. It saves time in the long run because it's a form of planning that W actually likes doing and will do. We are always telling W things like, "measure twice, cut once." There's nothing magical about the specific format of a mind map. It is just one promising way we've found to help get in the habit of slowing down and thinking and planning first before jumping into a project.  

The other day W was sending an email and he mentioned to me the mind map he was imagining in his head about the things he wanted to include in his note. I guess that's the goal of any graphic organizer or framework: to internalize it such that it doesn't need to be written out on paper, but it begins to shape the way we think and approach things. 

I've been imagining other uses for mind maps that might be fun to try out myself-- mind mapping vacation ideas, aspects of important decisions, new organization systems, holiday menus, or other events. Basically, any time I make lists, which might not always be the best way to see things clearly. The possibilities are endless.